There’s always a moment of panic when I know that I’ve been caught not listening to someone. I should be paying attention but instead I’ve been playing around on my phone. It’s a bad habit these days and one that we use when we’re bored and even when we’re not. My phone seems to constantly beckon for my attention. With its flashing little lights and discreet rumble in my pocket it’s hard to not reach for my phone.
New York, NY (June 17, 2014) – Residents of Kansas City have been engaging in extra-marital affairs in record numbers according to new data from AshleyMadison.com . The dating site designed for people already in relationships has decided to reveal the most unfaithful neighborhoods in K.C. based on the 34,180 cheaters who live in the metropolitan area. According to membership per capita, the most affair seekers live in Prairie Village, with Raymore, and Waldo rounding out the top three zip codes.
Relationships are a tricky thing and there isn’t much in the way of information when it comes to how you will feel after ending an affair. You might have once had a very good idea of why you didn’t want to be with your affair partner any longer and why the relationship had to end, but then you’re having these weird thoughts afterward.
When it comes to having an extramarital affair, you need to make sure that you’re doing things the right way. Everyone has heard that simplicity is the best. You want to keep your processes streamlined when it comes to business, you want to have your routine be convenient when it comes to your personal life, and you want to not have to struggle too much for romance. Unfortunately, this doesn’t always happen the way that we would want it to and the prevalence of extramarital affairs means that marriage isn’t the bliss that it is often portrayed as.
What turns someone on and what doesn’t all depends on the type of person that you are, but there are many people who let themselves go when they get married. Why not, right? You’ve worked hard to get there and you should have a break. The problem with that is that you’re going to want to stay attractive to your spouse or they just might find themselves having an extramarital affair.
There are times when you have to look at your phone and wonder if maybe it’s doing more damage than actually helping you. Modern technology is something of a miracle, but we take for granted the connection that we have with other people. After all, it’s so easy to get those connections that we crave and the fact that we can make those connections at the click of a button should be saving us even more time.
There is a lot of mystique around anal sex. Sopme people will see it as the ultimate sexual experience while others are utterly disdainful of it. The thing about anal sex is that it’s just another type of sex and like blow jobs or vaginal sex, it has its own set of rules that need to be adhered to for you to have a good time. There are rules that are so important for anal sex that they might as well be considered set in stone, but let’s get rid of some of the misconceptions that surround anal sex. If you want to try having anal sex with your affair partners, make sure you try these suggestions first.
Everyone is looking for the (seemingly) elusive female orgasm, but most of the time when there are complaints about mastering the female orgasm it’s less about the female and more about the man’s skill. Despite this, there are times when women are unable to achieve orgasm at all.
When it comes to one night stands, the information that we receive about them is a mixed bag. After all, there are many people who would celebrate one night stands, while others see them as the downfall of our society or harmful to those who participate in them. While there are ups and downs to any one night stand, to separate them into categories that are so distinct is a mistake. To try and categorize one night stands at all can be messy since they exist on a complicated spectrum. When it comes to relationships, marriages, and affairs, it can be hard to break something down into black and white, right and wrong.
Mother’s Day 2014 was a huge let down for many moms, despite many a husband’s best intention, with nearly 17,000 women signing up on leading extra-marital dating site, AshleyMadison.com, Monday, May 12th – a 431% increase from the typical Monday. Noel Biderman, CEO and Founder of AshleyMadison.com, explains this surge in sign-ups, “Much like Valentine’s Day and New Year’s Day, Mother’s Day is a holiday when women expect to be recognized for all their hard work throughout the year. Moms anticipate their husbands taking time to appreciate all that they do for their families - whether this be with a relaxing afternoon at the spa, or bringing some much needed romance back to the bedroom - moms just want to be recognized for their efforts. When these expectations aren’t met, it can be the last straw that can trigger many moms to pursue an affair.”
We have talked before about the much-overhyped sex hookup culture that we’re all hearing so much about and the reasons for a sex hookup culture vary depending on who you’re talking to. For some people, it’s the lack of time these days and for others, it just seems like a natural progression forward in dating. For some people (generally from other generations), the sex hookup culture that permeates today’s society is a direct reflection of how the moral fiber of any country is fraying. If you search sex hookup culture, you’ll see many explanations for why it exists and the how, but you’ll notice that people have already made their decisions about whether it’s good or bad.
A new study released by the Association for Psychological Science which was conducted by business processors from Harvard showed that cheating might be a good thing. It depends on what you’re doing of course, but the stigma against cheating is a terrible one.
There are a lot of men who seem to have the mindset that the underwear that they wear doesn’t matter. While it’s true that there is a lot more focus on the underwear of women, men need to keep in mind that it’s important for them to have sexy underwear too. If you’re having an extramarital affair, we’re going to assume that most of you knew that you should get some sexy underwear for the occasion. There are other reasons for having sexy underwear other than just impressing your affair partner however.
Being lonely is not something that anyone can escape. We all get lonely sometimes. It’s a natural feeling that we’re unable to escape, but in some ways, the loneliest you can be is when you are feeling lonely within your marriage. Many people who end up feeling lonely within their marriage wonder if it’s their own fault and it’s not uncommon for a person to blame themselves for the shortcomings of their marriages. After all, the idea of marriage and the way we view a marriage have been driven into our heads from a young age. Marriage is about two people working as a unit and as such, if something is going wrong within a marriage or if a spouse is lonely within a marriage, they assume that something is wrong with them rather than their partner.
We are told that relationships are about being a unit, a functional unit that allows you to act in a certain way, but we’re not told about how important is to make sure that you feel bother empowered and healthy within your relationships. If you don’t feel healthy and empowered within your relationships, then you need to look at alternative methods. These alternative methods might be as simple as having an affair or might be as complicated as deciding that you need to move from the house that you’re currently living in to another one.
Most people have been in some sort of relationship before and whether it’s a friendship, a marriage, or an affair, there are times when we need to know that it is time to pull the plug. We want to look at our affair partner(s) through a better light. Since they’re with us, we try to think better of our affair partners and our spouses. Those flaws that are so obvious to us are waved away because we are in love or lust or some form of intangible emotion that we can’t put a name to.
Maybe you think that you won’t have any problems when it comes to watching porn with your affair partner. After all, you’ve all probably watched a ton of porn (we all have, let’s be honest here) and you’ve always been able to find the right video to get you off. If you’re that confident in your porn tastes then by all means, go and give it a try without thinking it through. If you want to have the best experience possible when it comes to watching porn (and hopefully later having sex) with your affair partner, then you’re going to want to keep reading.
As bad as the stigma against adultery is, I’m sure that most of us can agree that the stigma is at its worst when it’s targeted at women. For some reason, the word slut gets tossed around like it’s nothing when it comes to women and the sex that they want to have. There are still persisting myths about the female sex drive and we’re sure that you’ve heard them all before. After all, how many times have you heard someone (whether they’re male, female, or other) complain that women just don’t have as avid a sex drive as men do?
When it comes to animals people tend to take their cues from them in strange ways. Most of the time people look at the way that animals have sex and use those as comparisons for dating and relationships. There are so many other things that you can learn from animals when it comes to dating, affairs, and friendships… so let’s give it a shot.
There is a way to even have sex with your eyes and before you start picturing eyes bumping against each other in a mockery of sex, you’re going to want to understand how important eye contact is. The thing about your eyes is that they’re useful for reading the emotions of others and by being someone who uses their eyes to communicate more often, you’re also opening yourself up to being read. This can be frightening, especially when it comes to affairs, but eye contact brings on connections and helps to solidify the connections that you already have.
So many people cheat or wish to cheat, and yet we can turn those who cheat into a public witch hunt. On a smaller scale, close friends and shared acquaintances wonder how someone could stoop so low, easily tossing around judgments without knowing much more about a person than one thing that they’ve done. On a larger scale, adultery becomes a media frenzy as more tidbits are dragged up.
If you were thinking that because sexting is such a popular trend nowadays that you would be able to avoid speaking on the phone for those sexy interludes, then you were wrong. While sexting is definitely more convenient than phone sex , there are still people who want to get the dirty with a more personal touch. Don’t get us wrong, sexting is hot, but sometimes when you can hear the sounds that your affair partner is making as their hands get all busy… It just adds to the experience.
The mind is a powerful thing. People tell you to visualize what you want and you’ll get it, but we can recognize that as the pile of bull crap that it is. One thing that is true, however, is that the mind is where your confidence comes from. Everyone likes confidence. Confidence is something that both women and men find attractive, so if you want to up your extramarital affair game and get laid, then you’re going to need to be confident.
Attachment can start out as a casual wish to have something or even just us getting used to having someone around. But that can grow until it becomes more of a fearful thing than any true comfort. You don’t want to let go to what you know and what brings you joy, so you clutch it tighter to your chest. These possessive feelings need to be fought.
[Verse 1: Lil’ Wayne]
I wasn’t born last night
I know these hoes ain’t right
But you was blowing up her phone last night
But she ain’t have her ringer nor her ring on last night, oh
Nigga, that’s that nerve
Why give a bitch your heart when she’d rather have a purse?
Why give a bitch an inch when she’d rather have nine?
You know how the game goes
She be mine by half time, I’m the shit, oh
Nigga, that’s that nerve
You all about her, and she all about hers
Birdman Junior in this bitch, no flamingos
And I done did everything, but trust these hoes
(CB fuck with me!)
When A rich nigga want ya
And your nigga can’t do nothing for ya
These hoes ain’t loyal
These hoes ain’t loyal
Yeah, yeah, let me see
[Verse 2: Chris Brown]
Just got rich
Took a broke nigga bitch
I can make a broke bitch rich
But I don’t fuck with broke bitches
Got a white girl with some fake titties
I took her to the Bay with me
There are times when we hear about someone who has a possessive streak in them who’s trying to have an affair. This is something that you need to examine if you’re someone who doesn’t share well with others. You either need to try to get better with that or at the very least find ways to deal with your possessiveness because the core point of an affair is that neither of you belong to each other…
AshleyMadison.com is offering a cool $1 million for the rights to an 8 mm film purportedly showing former Pres. John F. Kennedy, his brother Robert, and iconic sex symbol Marilyn Monroe engaged in a ménage à trois.
Cheating is as old as time and some argue that it’s in our DNA to stray, but are certain countries more guilty of infidelity than others? AshleyMadison.com, the world’s leading extra-marital dating site, pulled together data from their 24 million members in 35 countries to find out which nations are the least faithful. Below is their list of the top 10 countries for cheaters.